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Saturday, May 29, 2010

Our very first Ultrasound!

Present day.

You might have noticed that I have written 7 posts prior to this one in one day. You didn't notice? You should go check them out starting here. Just press "Newer post" at the end of the page once you've finished reading a post.

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What will it be?

I decided today to do a couple gender predictions. I'm certain we will have a boy. But according to the tests:

Chinese Gender Chart: Girl!

Madame Zaritska: an online "clairvoyant" where you answer questions and you'll get a prediction. Mine is the following:
The day you deliver, outside will be hazy. Your baby will arrive in the evening. After a labor lasting approximately 48 hours, your child, a girl, will be born. Your baby will weigh about 8 pounds, 3 ounces, and will be 22-1/2 inches long. This child will have dark amber eyes and barely there black hair.

For the other gender prediction tests, I'm not far enough along to answer completely honestly. So, I'll continue this later. :D

Time is flying...

Monday, May 24th

8 weeks.

4 weeks ago, I was begging for this week to come. Time. Went. By. So. Slowly. I thought this week would never come.

I read somewhere, that my uterus is the size of a grapefruit. I can feel it if I press on my abdomen only after emptying my bladder of course.

I still can't complain. I get nausea here and there, but it goes away with food. Ritz crackers have been great. Ice water also makes me feel good.

Reading over some of the previous posts that I've written, I talked alot about how food didn't sound good...but that has changed. A lot.


Food is so good.


It's bad. I'm going to gain all my weight in the first trimester. But, the good news is, I only have 4 more weeks in this trimester. :D And while it seems like forever from now, I realize these next 4 weeks are going to fly on by.


 Because I can't post this quite yet on my blog, I made one for just me to enjoy, until next week...

Lilypie Maternity tickers

Updates

Wednesday, May 19th

Week 7, day 2. I really can't complain. I have nausea here and there, but it passes easily. Usually a couple Ritz crackers do the trick. I feel dizzy at times, but again, only fleetingly. The biggest upset is I use the bathroom about 3 times as much as normal. I wake up just to pee about 3-5 times a night now. It is getting ridiculous.

Mostly it is due to the fact that my body has increased its blood volume in preparation of this new life that will need my blood to survive. But it also helps that I'm drinking several 32oz mugs of water every day.

I'm also very very tired. I struggle getting out of bed. And often want to get right back into bed only shortly after getting up. After this pregnancy, I realize I'll never be able to sleep again like I have been. So I am taking advantage of sleep.

I signed up to receive emails from Babycenter.com with updates on what is going on in my uterus every week. I also joined the January 2011 Birth Club forum, and receive an update of new posts to the forum. It is amazing some of the things these women share/talk about. Most of the ladies have lost a baby or pregnancy before and so of course I don't quite understand how they are feeling. But they obsess over things that really aren't that important. I still read some of the posts though because sometimes people have similar questions/concerns that I have.

Goodness I can't wait to hear that little heart beating!

Pregnancy Brain

Sunday, May 2nd

So, it begins. I'm continuing to do crazy things.

For example, yesterday, I decided I wanted Thai food for dinner. It was later than I meant to be getting home, and so dinner would take a while to make. Jamaal doesn't like Thai food, so I offered to pick him up Jack in the Box instead. He wanted a Jumbo Jack.

I looked at the menu, and told the drive-thru lady that I wanted a #4. I got home, enjoyed my phad Thai, and when Jamaal opened his sandwich, he said "Aubri, what is this?"

I sat for a second, thought really hard, and realized that a #4 was a Sourdough Jack. I hesitated for a second, and told him it was a "Sourdough Jack." I felt really bad. But at the time I thought I was doing the right thing...

Today I got lost going to West Seattle for a brunch held by a lady at work. I ended up in downtown Seattle instead.

I've been getting slightly dizzy and have had some more nausea. It is beginning to make me feel like running to the bathroom now. I'm also not really eating a ton. I feel really hungry, but it doesn't take long for me to feel full, or bored of what I'm eating.

Water is like the one thing that makes me feel really good. It makes my nausea pass a little faster...

Tomorrow is the first day of week 5. I think I'm going to take a picture most every week of this pregnancy, then make a slide show at the end. :D There are a couple really creative ones on YouTube that make me smile. One has a lady standing in the babies nursery, and they took a picture every day so you can see the nursery changing around her. It's really neat.

The first appointment.

Thursday, April 28th

Today we met with an LPN at St. Joe's Women's clinic to gather my health history and pick a midwife. They collected urine from me at the beginning, and after the appointment they stole 7 or 8 tubes of blood from me. I wasn't expecting a blood draw, so this was a surprise.

The LPN asked when my LMP (last menstrual period) was, and I told her. But I was hesitant to tell her. Since my cycles are so long, it is unrealistic to use the normal due date calculator. I'm not normal. I pleaded for her to not use her number. But she did not budge.

According to her calculations, I'm 7 weeks. According to mine, I'm 4. That, is a huge difference at this point. She did bargain with me and scheduled my first ultrasound in 4 weeks (so what I believe is 8 weeks and 4 days). That way, if I'm right (and I know I'm close) I should still see a heart beat. Hopefully my midwife will agree with me and change my due date to the one I predict. A difference between December 12th, and January 3rd.

Is it weird that I'm secretly hoping for twins?? I know they are a lot more work, but goodness imagine the cuteness! :D I saw this double stroller with one seat in front of the other, and the car carriers fit on there too, and it was absolutely adorable. I'm crazy, I know. Only part of me wants twins...and it is highly unlikely. But I just have this feeling...

I've told pretty much all of my close friends, and family members. I finally decided that it doesn't matter at this point. If I receive bad news at my ultrasound, I'd tell them anyway. So I might as well tell them the news, while it is still good. (Hopefully it will continue to be good). :D

How I'm feeling:

I just switched over to night shift, which always messes with my head a bit. But this time seems a little bit worse. Smells are making me crazy. Yogurt doesn't taste the same. Food doesn't sound that appealing.

And unfortunately, I've had a small amount of diarrhea. I'll spare you the details.

But I am beginning to have nausea that comes and goes. Sometimes I feel like I'm going to puke, and I start to think about getting to the toilet, but then it passes. I'm also pretty tired, but again, night shift also makes me tired. And, I haven't been sleeping all that much as of late. (Just related to MD appointments, and visits with friends).

Actually, a nap sounds super amazing right now....hopefully I don't sleep through the night. (It's currently 1935). After I wake up, I need to do dishes...

Appointments and Butterflies

Monday, April 26th

Today I scheduled an appointment at the St. Joseph's Women's Clinic to:

1. Verify my pregnancy.
2. Find out a little more about the Midwives working there
3. Hopefully choose one to work with during this pregnancy!
4. And if it can be arranged, go on a tour of the Family Birth Center.

I'm a little disappointed that the midwives don't deliver at St. Francis in Federal Way. I like the facility there, my sis-in-law had all 3 of her sons there so I've seen it up close already.

But, I really want a midwife.

Jamaal's grandma lives in Tacoma, so if for some reason I need to be really close to the hospital, I could stay there to be close by.

How I'm feeling:
I'm not nauseated, but I feel like I have butterflies in my stomach all the time. Food doesn't sound that good to me, I'll eat, but it just isn't satisfying. I'm so very nervous that I'll lose this pregnancy. We've told a few people, mostly because I just can't keep this secret. I feel like I want to scream it from a mountain top. ;)

But I'm so early, I don't feel comfortable sharing.

After thinking for several years now, that I'd have a difficult time getting pregnant, I'm in utter shock that it happened this quickly. So I just have this general feeling that something, like a miscarriage, will happen.

Since I wasn't planning getting pregnant this cycle, I'm certain it will be a boy. As long as he's healthy, that's fine with me. :D